The Problem with Excellence

To say I have been busy lately is an understatement. In the course of a single week, my family took part in three major music performances. On a Tuesday our oldest daughter’s school had their spring concert, overwhelmed with singing, drumming, dancing, and xylophones. The following Monday was her first piano recital. And in between, Andrea and I had the pleasure or singing Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony with the Nielsen Chorale and Rockford Symphony Orchestra.

 

To add to all that, earlier this spring I was able to attend my sister’s spring concert. It was amazing to watch her direct about 100 elementary students in a wide-ranging performance at the rural school district where she is the sole music teacher.

 

As much as I am proud of what my family was able to do musically, these moments were also a strong reminder that excellence is not all it’s cracked up to be. Mistakes were made. Notes were missed. Thanks to a cold in a week full of rehearsals, I barely had enough of a voice to squeak out my part at our final performance. Despite these things, there was still joy and applause. Focusing on the imperfections instead of the joy will only sour the memory of witnessing the people I love do what they love to do.

 

The need for excellence has gotten incredibly strong in recent years. Thanks to social media, where everyone seems polished and perfect, we rarely see each others’ flaws. Thanks to club sports and singing competitions, it is hard for some folks to enjoy the simplicity of activities which were originally meant to bring us together in community. How often have you hesitated to sing because you didn’t want others to judge you, or sat out of a group activity because you didn’t think you were as good as everyone else?

 

Often, the pursuit of excellence takes away the joy that an activity is meant to bring. You don’t have to play the best round of your life in order to enjoy a morning on the golf course with dear friends. You don’t need to be a classically trained singer in order to add your voice to the multitude of worshippers on a Sunday morning. A kid doesn’t have to set their sights on a spot with the swim team in order to benefit from swimming lessons. If you like to knit or paint or sew, the things you make don’t have to end up at a craft fair. It is one thing to be good enough at something to enjoy it. It’s a completely different thing to strive to be better than others, or to worry what others might think of you. Comparison is the thief of joy.

 

This may not seem like a particularly spiritual subject, and yet it has everything to do with how we experience our faith in community— from worshipping together, to contributing to the ministries of the church, to the way we hope the community might recognize us. One of the wonderful things about having faith in Jesus is that perfection is already considered out of reach. We don’t need it in order to be part of what God is doing in the world. Jesus doesn’t insist that the disciples be polished, pure, and pristine. Instead, he commands us to have love for one another. So love one another, love who God has called you to be, and never let your limitations stop you from experiencing joy. 

Peace,

Pastor Chad McKenna

Linger with Jesus!

As I was scrolling through Facebook on Easter Monday, I came across a post from the Rev. Traci Blackmon who reminded us to Linger with Jesus.  Rev. Blackmon writes,

“Hey Family! I have Good News to share this morning, just in case you aren’t aware! Easter is not just a Sunday. It is a season in the life of the Church. Easter Season last 50 days and ends with Pentecost.  We always make a big deal of Resurrection Day, as we should…but that’s not the end of the story. The Bible says Jesus hung around earth 40 days making appearances and assurances to those who believed. During those 40 days…Jesus showed his wounds to Thomas (John 20); had a fish fry with his boys (John 21); showed up for a gathering of more than 500 (1 Corinthians 15) …ordinary sightings. In other words, Jesus is not only Savior, but our Sustainer. Jesus did not ascend to the heavens until the 40th day. This is your invitation to linger at Easter….to look for God in the ordinary…to remember God in the mundane…to trust God’s guidance in times of despair…to know God will soon send the Comforter. Don’t rush Easter.  Linger with the Lord.”

As we journey through the Easter season, I encourage you to invite Jesus into your ordinary, everyday activities.  Invite Jesus into the kitchen while you make a meal or while you’re doing the dishes.  Invite Jesus into times of play and rest.  Invite Jesus into your entire day.  As you invite Jesus into your day, did you notice something different?  How did you feel knowing that you have invited Jesus into your day to day activities?  We may be surprised at what changes when we intentionally invite Jesus into our daily life. 

Siblings in Christ, I encourage you to lean into the entire Easter season. Linger at Easter.  Invite Jesus into your daily life, you may be surprised at what Jesus does in the ordinary and mundane.  Don’t rush Easter.  Linger with Jesus.

Yours in Christ,

Pastor Katrina Steingraeber  

The Gift of Hospitality!

As I have gotten older, I have come to greatly appreciate hospitality.  When I walk into a place for the first time, it is nice to have someone acknowledge me or often to help.  Whether I’m in a department store, a church, or a restaurant, the hospitality I receive makes a difference. 

I have heard from several folks that have visited St. Mark Lutheran Church say that the people at St. Mark are so nice.  I love that people feel this way.  We as a church need to be a welcoming and show hospitality to all people. Jesus teaches us to care for the poor, welcome the stranger, care for those living with disabilities, and feed the hungry.  Jesus taught us radical hospitality.  

Synonyms for the adjective form of the word radical are awesome, beautiful, divine, and wonderful.  These are amazing descriptive words that are often not thought of when the word radical is heard.  Sadly, I am aware that radical is often thought of as a negative description, but when it comes to radical hospitality it is far from negative.  It is beyond beautiful.

As we prepare to welcome new members, I encourage you to continue to show radical hospitality to folks who visit St. Mark. I encourage you to greet people whom you do not know.  Wear a name tag each Sunday so folks can see your name.  There are extra name tags and markers in the narthex on the tall tables for you to use on Sunday mornings.  Sit at a table with someone you don’t know well and get to know them while enjoying a donut and coffee.  Continue to be the friendly church on the hill.

Thank you for sharing your radical hospitality with others.  You all are the hands and feet of Jesus caring for and loving the people of our community and beyond.  You are a blessing!

Yours in Christ,

Pastor Katrina Steingraeber 

Glimpses of Hope

I pulled into the garage on one of of those beautiful spring days last week, and as the we walked through the yard toward the back door, both girls begged to go straight to the front yard, where sidewalk chalks and scooters awaited. The air was so crisp that I couldn’t say no, and before I knew it, the three of us had sauntered past all the yard toys and into our first neighborhood walk in months. We noticed tulips and irises poking out of leaf piles. We used a phone app to identify the songs of birds returned from their winter retreats. We laughed at squirrels. We greeted dogs out for a walk, as well as the humans on the other end of their leashes.

After a frigid winter with little sunlight, being outside can be incredibly healing. And while we can’t quite pack up our heavy coats just yet, these glimpses of new life can still warm us with hope. With Spring officially here, those glimpses will be more and more common, until that hope is the whole of our reality.

There are entire fields of research that study what exactly is going on in our minds and bodies when we spend the right amount of time in the sun, in a forest, or simply working in the back yard. This post-winter feeling, though, is about more than the biological benefits to our bodies. There is connection and community at play. Winter is isolating, but spring can help us step out and discover our neighbors again— from wildlife and perennial plants, to the folks we meet on the sidewalk. We can discover again how we can care for creation and our community.

As much as I love being outside, this phenomenon of springtime connection is evident inside our church building as well. At the weekly dinner before mid-week Lenten worship last night, one person I sat with glowed as he talked about the community that we experience when we simply come together to eat, serve one another, and worship outside of our typical routines. Families filled the Fellowship Hall last night with food, life, and joy. Like glimpses of spring, moments like that are tangible reminders of the hope we have for the Kingdom of God.

Lent is usually thought of as a season for fasting and prayer. In Isaiah 58, though, the prophet reminds that these practices are only helpful when they cause us to feed the hungry and care for one another. We can take these little springtime moments to restore ourselves, and we are all the more restored when those moments recognize our neighbors and bring us together. Isaiah says that when we do this, we become like a watered garden whose springs of water never fail. As we continue on this journey through Spring and Lent, I pray that you find moments of hope and connection that bring you closer to your neighbors, and closer to the God who created us all.

Peace,

Pastor Chad McKenna

Reflecting on Our Baptism

As we prepare to enter the church season of Lent, I invite you to reflect on your baptism.  At your baptism you entered into the body of believers who promised to pray for you and support you.  You also entered a covenant with God, and you were sealed by the Holy Spirit and marked with the cross of Christ, FOREVER!  In Gail Ramshaw’s book, Word of God, Work of Life, she writes, “Lent developed in the third century as a time of preparation for those adults who would be baptized at the Easter festival.  Catechumens were invited to intense study of the scripture, urged to abandon the values of the culture, and called to amendment of life.  They would be welcomed into the body of believers after baptism.” 

Historically, adult baptisms would take place at the Easter Vigil.  A service that is filled with rich scripture readings and music. I had the privilege of witnessing a baptism during an Easter Vigil worship service.  The baptism added to the excitement of the worship service.  The Easter season is the time we intentionally focus on the resurrection of Christ and celebrate what that means for us. In baptism we participate in the death and resurrection of Christ and become a part of the body of Christ.      

Gail Ramshaw writes in the same book, “The sacrament of baptism acknowledges that one’s personal identity is not a solely private acquisition of individual construction. Along with much else in the human person, baptism sets one’s personal identity within the past, present, and even future of a communal identity.  In baptism, the past is there, in one’s participation in the death and resurrection of Christ and in communion with all the faithful departed.  The present is there: the “me” who I am is now a member of the body of Christ, and thus I am connected with the whole of the body of Christ, which connects me to all the needy.  The future is there, since at my death I enter fully into that body, at the end of time.  I as one of the whole people of God anticipate being raised into the divine presence.”

In our baptism, we are connected to the saints who have gone before us.  Years ago, a pastor told me that when we take communion we are joined by all the saints who have gone before us. I like this because it reminds me of my ancestors and all the people who I loved who have died.  Our communal identity is deep and filled with so many from our past, present, and even future. 

During Lent I encourage you to read scripture as often as you can from the bible or a devotional book.  Find a time of the day where you can sit with the reading and reflect on what it says to you.  I encourage you to think about your baptism and what it means to be a member of the body of Christ. You may be surprised to discover that you have changed and grown closer to God and Jesus Christ.

Yours in Christ,

Pastor Katrina Steingraeber   

Annual Report of the Pastors

Dear Siblings in Christ,

As your pastors, we feel blessed to journey alongside you. This past year brought a change to St. Mark. As of November 3rd, we are co-pastoring and are sharing leadership equally. You all overwhelmingly supported the idea of co-pastoring at our congregation meeting that day, and we are blessed to have your support as we lead St. Mark into a new era.

We are thankful for all of our amazing volunteers– those who volunteer inside the walls of the church and in the community. You are the church, and you make St. Mark what it is. In fact, the ministries of St. Mark would not happen without you. It is our volunteers who ensure that St. Mark supports so many organizations in our community. Members actively serve at Habitat for Humanity, Mosaic, the Uniform Co-op, Carpenters Place, Rock House Kids, Rock River Valley Pantry, Bridges to Prosperity (formerly One Body Collaborative), Katie’s Cup, and Cornucopia Pantry.  This summer we also supported Ryan, an Eagle Scout, whose Eagle Project was rebuilding the dumpster enclosure. 

The fall, fourteen of our members trained to lead our first Listening Campaign. Over the course of eight weeks, this dedicated team reached out to 147 members and had 93 one-to-one conversations with you. The team identified a number of areas where we can continue to grow. One of the outcomes that began during the Listening Campaign is the Grief Support Group.  This group offers a safe space for people to share their grief, and they now regularly meet on the first and third Thursday of each month. As we move into the new year, our Listening Team intends to address the other areas they identified.

On average, we have had about 193 people in worship on Sundays– a number we have not seen since before the beginning of the pandemic. This speaks volumes to who we are as a church. The hospitality shown to guests is genuine and kind. This comes from all of you. Thank you for your kindness to others. 

Our worship services continue to bring together God’s word not only with scripture and preaching, but also with beautiful music from our Bell Choir, Praise Band, Voices of St. Mark, as well as soloists and other groups. We are so blessed to have so many talented musicians here! We are also blessed to have a concert series like no other. Folks from all backgrounds come and perform in the sanctuary. 

We want to thank the amazing staff of St. Mark Lutheran Church, who go above and beyond for all our ministries.  Church work is not easy and can be exhausting, but it is also life-giving. Our staff is faithful and amazing and we are so grateful for all they do. 

This past year has been a year full of exciting adventures. We will continue to follow God’s call to love others in this new year, and we cannot wait to see what God has in store! 

Peace,

Pastor Chad McKenna and Pastor Katrina Steingraeber

Still With Us

As baffling as it may sound, there are many people in our midst who actually like winter. Some folks love to go for a run, letting that dry, cold air fill their lungs. Some love to ski or skate, or simply cozy up next to the yellow warmth of a fireplace. No matter how you feel about the season, though, everyone will find it harsh and unrelenting at times. The same storms that give us conditions for play also slow us down and put drivers in danger. Scarce daylight hours can damage our moods. Sometimes the cold is simply too much to handle.

My feelings about winter seem to change with the weather. It can be lovely at times, but I would probably love it more if we could just have a soft blanket of snow on the ground from the moment the last leaf falls to the day the first shoots of spring emerge. When all is overcast and brown, it is hard to get much joy out of a barren landscape. I think this is one reason why so many folks use lights and colorful decorations to liven up the outside of their homes during Christmas. 

So many of us celebrated the good news of Jesus’ life by bringing signs of hope into a world that has turned drab. We brought that hope through decorations, music, generosity, and togetherness. As people of faith, we are called to still proclaim that good news even beyond the holiday season— especially in a world that still feels dim and devoid of vibrance in so many ways. The light of Christ shines in the darkness of night, and we need the warming assurance that Emmanuel is still with us.

This is one reason why we have kept a few decorations up around the building— to remind ourselves that the Messiah we celebrated in December is with us even now. You may have noticed the paper stars in the windows of the Fellowship Hall. We originally chose these because the quilt-like patterns within them worked well with the imagery our Advent devotionals. The confirmation students and I spent a few Wednesdays folding them and progressively filling the building with their color throughout Advent. 

Now that Christmas is behind us, all the stars have relocated to the windows in the Fellowship Hall. We have lifted the blinds to let the light shine through them, filling the space with radiant color. They will probably remain there a little while longer. And while this little installation won’t replace your Vitamin D supplements, hopefully it can lift your mood ever so slightly. And, like the Star of Bethlehem, hopefully these points of color will remind you to continue to seek out the love of Jesus and share that joy with all the world.

Peace, Pastor Chad McKenna