The Problem with Excellence

To say I have been busy lately is an understatement. In the course of a single week, my family took part in three major music performances. On a Tuesday our oldest daughter’s school had their spring concert, overwhelmed with singing, drumming, dancing, and xylophones. The following Monday was her first piano recital. And in between, Andrea and I had the pleasure or singing Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony with the Nielsen Chorale and Rockford Symphony Orchestra.

 

To add to all that, earlier this spring I was able to attend my sister’s spring concert. It was amazing to watch her direct about 100 elementary students in a wide-ranging performance at the rural school district where she is the sole music teacher.

 

As much as I am proud of what my family was able to do musically, these moments were also a strong reminder that excellence is not all it’s cracked up to be. Mistakes were made. Notes were missed. Thanks to a cold in a week full of rehearsals, I barely had enough of a voice to squeak out my part at our final performance. Despite these things, there was still joy and applause. Focusing on the imperfections instead of the joy will only sour the memory of witnessing the people I love do what they love to do.

 

The need for excellence has gotten incredibly strong in recent years. Thanks to social media, where everyone seems polished and perfect, we rarely see each others’ flaws. Thanks to club sports and singing competitions, it is hard for some folks to enjoy the simplicity of activities which were originally meant to bring us together in community. How often have you hesitated to sing because you didn’t want others to judge you, or sat out of a group activity because you didn’t think you were as good as everyone else?

 

Often, the pursuit of excellence takes away the joy that an activity is meant to bring. You don’t have to play the best round of your life in order to enjoy a morning on the golf course with dear friends. You don’t need to be a classically trained singer in order to add your voice to the multitude of worshippers on a Sunday morning. A kid doesn’t have to set their sights on a spot with the swim team in order to benefit from swimming lessons. If you like to knit or paint or sew, the things you make don’t have to end up at a craft fair. It is one thing to be good enough at something to enjoy it. It’s a completely different thing to strive to be better than others, or to worry what others might think of you. Comparison is the thief of joy.

 

This may not seem like a particularly spiritual subject, and yet it has everything to do with how we experience our faith in community— from worshipping together, to contributing to the ministries of the church, to the way we hope the community might recognize us. One of the wonderful things about having faith in Jesus is that perfection is already considered out of reach. We don’t need it in order to be part of what God is doing in the world. Jesus doesn’t insist that the disciples be polished, pure, and pristine. Instead, he commands us to have love for one another. So love one another, love who God has called you to be, and never let your limitations stop you from experiencing joy. 

Peace,

Pastor Chad McKenna